One woman's reflections of past and present - people, places and things that contribute to the joy and sweetness; the sorrow and hurt of an everyday ordinary life.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
April Days
Baby birds. Baby bunnies. Young squirrels scampering across
rain soaked ground looking for someplace to hide their food;
A herd of elk browsing on newly sprouted grass
in an open field nearby.
Mountain Man Gary hard at work, rota-tilling earth
and building boxes ten by five
to plant his home grown garden ,
and a fence to keep deer from
reaping the harvest
Cool temps bring wind and hail, and afternoon storms -
not warm enough for me to wear flip-flops and shorts
but warm enough for the Maple to bud, and
tulips to bloom
Monday, April 25, 2011
BLOGGERS
Why blog? I'm not exactly sure. For most of us, it's not the money earned or accolades won, a new book published or literary score, but the hope of someone reading what we write, and finding it worth their time. Some blog to document the growth of babies and social events, others to rant and rave about something - anything they find fault with..
I blog to practice the skill of writing, and tell a story via essay, memoir,or poem. Perhaps a funny anecdote or sad plight; It might be something heartfelt, thought provoking, or just plain silly but whatever the story is, the words I write are part of me, mine to share.
I blog to practice the skill of writing, and tell a story via essay, memoir,or poem. Perhaps a funny anecdote or sad plight; It might be something heartfelt, thought provoking, or just plain silly but whatever the story is, the words I write are part of me, mine to share.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Another Take on Washing Feet
In my last blog I shared the happy experience of having my first pedicure and how Hannah took each foot, bathed them in a bowl of water, and wiped them dry. There was something about her gentle, caring way that reminded me of how Jesus washed the feet of the apostles. Even more so today, as it's Holy Thursday. This night Christians around the world commemorate Jesus' humble act - the washing of feet.
At first Peter squawked, " You, Lord? Wash my feet ? No way!", but Jesus kindly rebuked him, " If I do not wash you, you have no part of me." Peter answered, "Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and head."
Jesus was showing by example the importance of serving others, and of allowing others to serve us. Sometimes, isn't just hard to let others do for us? We feel less independent, less in control, less powerful; Embarrassed, and even unworthy. But isn't that the point? Recognizing in some way we are all a broken people, only made whole again by allowing another to minister to us at certain times in our life ? Isn't that what Jesus was saying to Peter, when we serve, and allow another to serve us, we truly become a part of each other.
When you let me take, I'm grateful.
When you let me give, I'm blessed
- Author unknown
The nature of love is to humble oneself
-St. Therese
Saturday, April 16, 2011
First Pedicure
There the six of us sat , all lined up in a row, comfortable and relaxed in over sized massage chairs that snuggled the contour of our upper body like a baseball in a catcher's mitt. Our ages ranged from 28 years to 74, and at 60 I was at the upper tilt of that scale. No matter, this was a big day for me , I was about to have my very first pedicure (manicure, too) , and was filled with the same happy anticipation any twenty year old might have looking forward to experiencing something new.
Being a somewhat cautious person, I must admit there was a wee part of me not quite sure how I felt about someone I didn't know touching my feet, and cutting my toenails. But that feeling quickly passed when Hannah, a soft spoken, kindly woman of Vietnamese descent gently took my dry, rough feet, bathed them in a bowl of scented water, and wiped them clean. With her experienced hands, she massaged each foot with soothing ointment and lotion. It was wonderful ! I began to feel more like a pedigree pup, pampered and spoiled. All the while , my aunt and cousin, her daughter-in-law, two family friends and me continually chatted and laughed together, enjoying each others company, and our early morning pedicure party.
Hannah used her special tools to clip,snip and file, prime and polish, and like a sculptor with his clay, she made my feet and toes into a new creation. Yes, my first pedicure, but not my last !
Being a somewhat cautious person, I must admit there was a wee part of me not quite sure how I felt about someone I didn't know touching my feet, and cutting my toenails. But that feeling quickly passed when Hannah, a soft spoken, kindly woman of Vietnamese descent gently took my dry, rough feet, bathed them in a bowl of scented water, and wiped them clean. With her experienced hands, she massaged each foot with soothing ointment and lotion. It was wonderful ! I began to feel more like a pedigree pup, pampered and spoiled. All the while , my aunt and cousin, her daughter-in-law, two family friends and me continually chatted and laughed together, enjoying each others company, and our early morning pedicure party.
Hannah used her special tools to clip,snip and file, prime and polish, and like a sculptor with his clay, she made my feet and toes into a new creation. Yes, my first pedicure, but not my last !
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Wedding Day
England's Prince William and Kate Middleton aren't the only pair with big wedding plans this month. My grandma and grandpa Cooney's great-granddaughter, Megan was the most beautiful bride when she and her Benj were married last Saturday, April 9. Other than unusually cool Arizona temperatures, a bit of desert wind and evening rain, the day was perfect in every way. Meg's happiness was contagious. I watched her face, radiant with joy, and thought of grandma, knowing she would be so happy,too.
Weddings are a cheerful and merry occasion. Meg and Benj's especially so. Parents of the bride and groom; Aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers and sisters, long time friends, and newly acquainted friends gathered together to witness two hearts becoming one; To celebrate the vows they made, and love they share.
Ladies in lovely dress
men in suit and tie
flowers, and flower girls -
(little boys squirming, having a hard time
sitting still)
Scented candles, a three tiered cake
and beautiful music -
A toast to the new Mr.& Mrs.,
and cheers for their happily
ever after, (eternal) wedded bliss
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
A Love For Poetry
Longfellow, Whittier, Whitman, James Whitcomb Riley and Eugene Field; Dickinson, Millay, Kilmer, e.e. Cummings and Ezra Pound. Familiar names to me just like Christy Mathewson, Dizzy Dean and Babe Ruth are to baseball fans. That’s because from the time I was a very little girl my mother would read poetry to my brother and me - sometimes during the day or after dinner, but always at bedtime.
I didn't understand then about quatrain (four lines), tercet (three lines) or couplet (two lines), nor did I know about pure rhymes, slant rhymes or internal rhymes - that would come much later. I only knew it was soothing and sweet to hear the sound of my mother’s voice as she read about The Duel between the gingham dog and calico cat., The Barefoot Boy kissed by strawberries on the hill, and Psalm of Life:
Let us then be up and doing
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to labor and to wait
Because my mother so lovingly shared her fondness for poetry with me, I grew to have the same affection for reading poetry . I found I liked poetry as story, and fitting words together like pieces of a puzzle. One of my first attempts at writing a poem was when I was nine years old, and my fourth grade teacher, Sister Mary Wahlburg had all of her students compose a non-sense verse. Here’s mine:
If I were a fish
I wouldn’t live in a dish
But in an aquarium
I’d play spish, spash, spish
If I were a goat
I’d wear a furry coat
Nibble on green grass
and drink from a glass
I thought it was brilliant, as only a nine year old can, and made a special copy to give to my grandmother Cooney for Christmas that year. She raved about it, telling me it was a wonderful poem, and encouraged me to write more. Now , that’s a grandma’s love for sure.
In recent years my dad gave me the book, How to Write Poetry . He inscribed it, To Kathy, my favorite poet (Now, that’s a dad’s love for sure), I read in this book: Sometimes a few beautiful well-constructed lines are more powerful than any thousand page novel could possibly be. So this book challenges you to always seek the few beautiful well-constructed lines. My Love, Dad
On the inside cover dad made a few more helpful notations; Guidelines he picked from the book:
* Show joy, awe & love
* Every word in a poem plays a role in creating rhythm
*Be creative, not careless
*Where do you begin ? Begin at the beginning with a thought or a phrase
*Poetry is personal and there isn’t a right or wrong way to write a poem.
I’m a lot older than nine now, but I still write prose, poetry and essay, and because I’m no longer nine , or 39 or 59 I don’t think my writing is as brilliant as I did when I was in the fourth grade, but that doesn’t stop me. I write on !
postscript: April is National Poetry Month. Be kind to a poet ! To view my blog Solitude, Salvator and Ella Wheeler Wilcox go to http://writingnorthidaho.blogspot.com/2011/04/solitude-salvator-and-ella-wheeler.html
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