Friday, May 28, 2010

Portrait of Memories

Whenever I  reminesce about people I've known  and   places I've been,  it's not because I choose to live in the past, but to recall and remember an especially sweet moment, silly happening, sad event shared with family  or friends  - each one contributing to the fabric of my life, adding much  to the history of being  me. Every  individual has  their own unique history and story to tell. One that is often  marked with both  profound saddness and sublime joy.
  From the very start, my parents,grand-parents, and brother;  Aunts, uncles, cousins, school friends, neighborhood friends, church friends, work friends; my spouse and sons  - each on has colored my life with different hues of a glorious  rainbow, creating a portrait of memories I will always hold dear.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Life's Blessing

During a recent  weekend  visit with two  of my  long time friends,  we sat  for hours at our leisure,  talking about   many different things - something good friends are apt to do when getting together.  At one point,  one friend commented how she and her family were extremely blessed, and was grateful for the good life they had.
Some time later when I was alone with the quiet,  and my own silent thought , I reflected on what it means to be 'blessed' in life.  I considered my friends analogy that she and her family have been relatively free from strife, financially and personally so therefore 'blessed';  I certainly agree.   My whole life I have had  friends and relatives who are 'blessed' in just that way, due to good choices and circumstances,  and  pondered if that was the only criteria for consideration  of being blessed .
 I concluded not every one has the same opportunity to achieve wealth, or is  chosen for promotion  - regardless of how smart they are or how hard they work, nor is every parent  free from the hardships of daily living and raising upright kids, whether they are present to their children or not.  Why that is, I don't know.  What I do know is God has a purpose and plan for each of us. From the very beginning we are  'blessed' with the gift of life ;  Whether the road is smooth or full of potholes, His indwelling presence does not discriminate. It is up to us to receive His gift of faith and trust.  In doing so, we are truly blessed.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Thirty- Two

Thirty-two years of married life
thirty-two years being husband and wife
thirty-two years of  days well lived;
Building a business
raising children
making a home
Thirty-two years not all free
from strife; Challenges met, struggles
solved;  A marriage built on faith's foundation;
committment, friendship and love.

Gary and i celebrated our anniversary with early morning kisses and hugs,  reminisced  about the day we said, "I do", and marvelled  how quickly the years passed by.  Late afternoon our  young son, Gavin took us for a steak dinner;   When we protested the cost was too high  he said, "No, Mother and Dad, this is my   gift to the two of  you."