Thursday, April 28, 2011

April Days


Baby birds. Baby bunnies. Young squirrels scampering across
rain soaked ground looking for someplace to hide their food;
A herd of elk browsing on newly sprouted grass
in an open field nearby.
Mountain Man Gary hard at work, rota-tilling earth
and building boxes ten by five
to plant his home grown garden ,
and a fence to keep deer from
reaping the harvest

Cool temps bring wind and hail, and afternoon storms -
not warm enough for me  to wear flip-flops and shorts
but warm enough for the Maple  to bud, and
tulips to bloom








Monday, April 25, 2011

BLOGGERS

Why blog?  I'm not exactly sure.  For most of us, it's not the money earned or accolades won, a new book published or literary score, but the hope of someone reading what we write, and finding it worth their time. Some blog to document the growth of babies and social events, others to rant and rave about something - anything they find fault with..

I blog to practice the skill of writing,  and   tell a story via essay, memoir,or poem. Perhaps a funny anecdote or sad plight; It might be  something heartfelt, thought provoking, or just plain silly  but whatever the story is, the words I write are  part of me, mine to share.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Another Take on Washing Feet


In my last blog I shared the happy experience of having my first pedicure and how Hannah took each foot, bathed them in a bowl of water,  and wiped them dry. There was something about her gentle, caring way that reminded me of how Jesus washed the feet of the apostles.  Even more so today,  as it's Holy Thursday. This night Christians  around the world commemorate Jesus' humble act - the washing of feet.

At first Peter squawked, " You, Lord? Wash my feet ?  No way!", but  Jesus kindly  rebuked him, " If I do not wash you, you have no part of me." Peter answered, "Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and head."


Jesus was showing by example the importance of serving others, and of allowing others to serve us. Sometimes, isn't just hard to let others do for us?  We feel less independent, less in control, less powerful; Embarrassed, and even unworthy.   But isn't  that the point?  Recognizing in some way we are all a broken people, only made whole again by allowing another to minister to us at certain times in our life ?  Isn't that what Jesus was saying  to Peter,  when we serve, and allow another to serve us,  we truly become a part of each other.

When you let me take, I'm grateful.
When you let me give, I'm blessed
- Author unknown


The nature of love is to humble oneself
-St. Therese


Saturday, April 16, 2011

First Pedicure

There the six of us sat , all lined up in a row,  comfortable and relaxed in over sized  massage chairs that snuggled  the contour of our upper body like a baseball in a catcher's mitt. Our ages ranged from 28 years to 74, and at 60 I was at the upper tilt of that scale.  No matter, this was a big day for me , I was about to have my very first pedicure (manicure, too) ,  and was filled  with the same happy anticipation  any twenty year old might have looking forward to experiencing something new.

 Being a  somewhat cautious person, I must admit there was  a wee part of me not quite sure   how  I felt about someone I didn't know  touching my feet, and cutting my toenails. But that  feeling quickly passed   when  Hannah, a soft spoken,  kindly woman of Vietnamese descent gently took my dry, rough  feet,  bathed them in a bowl of  scented  water,  and  wiped them clean. With her experienced hands, she massaged each foot  with soothing ointment and lotion. It was wonderful !  I began to feel more  like a pedigree pup, pampered and spoiled. All the while , my aunt and  cousin, her daughter-in-law, two family friends and me continually chatted and laughed together, enjoying each others company,  and our early morning pedicure party.

 Hannah  used  her  special tools to clip,snip and file, prime and polish,  and  like a sculptor with  his clay,   she  made   my  feet and toes  into a new creation.  Yes,  my first pedicure,  but not my last !

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Wedding Day





England's Prince William and Kate Middleton aren't  the only pair with big  wedding plans this month.  My grandma and grandpa Cooney's great-granddaughter, Megan was the most beautiful bride when she and her Benj were married  last Saturday, April 9. Other than unusually  cool Arizona  temperatures, a bit of desert  wind and evening rain, the day was perfect in every way.   Meg's happiness was contagious. I watched  her face,  radiant with joy,   and   thought of grandma, knowing she would be so happy,too. 

Weddings are a cheerful and merry occasion. Meg and Benj's especially so.  Parents of the bride and  groom; Aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers and sisters, long time friends, and newly acquainted friends gathered together to witness two hearts  becoming one;  To celebrate the vows they made,   and love they share.

Ladies in lovely dress
men in suit and tie
flowers,  and flower girls -
(little boys squirming,  having a hard time 
sitting still)
Scented candles,  a three tiered cake
and beautiful music -
A toast   to the new  Mr.& Mrs., 
and cheers for their happily 
ever after, (eternal)  wedded bliss





Wednesday, April 6, 2011

A Love For Poetry


Longfellow, Whittier, Whitman, James Whitcomb Riley and Eugene Field; Dickinson, Millay,  Kilmer, e.e. Cummings and  Ezra Pound. Familiar names to me  just  like  Christy Mathewson, Dizzy Dean and Babe Ruth are to baseball fans.  That’s because from  the time I was a very little girl  my mother would read poetry to my  brother and me  - sometimes  during the day or after dinner, but always at bedtime.

didn't understand  then about quatrain (four lines), tercet (three lines) or couplet (two lines),  nor did I know about  pure rhymes, slant rhymes or internal rhymes -  that would come much later. I only knew it was soothing and sweet to hear the sound of my  mother’s voice as she read about The Duel  between the gingham dog and calico cat., The Barefoot Boy kissed by strawberries on the hill, and Psalm of Life:

Let us then be up and doing
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to labor and to wait

 Because my mother so lovingly shared her fondness for poetry with me, I grew to have the same affection for reading poetry . I  found I liked poetry as story, and fitting words together like pieces of a puzzle.   One of my first attempts at writing a  poem  was when I was nine years old, and my fourth grade  teacher, Sister Mary  Wahlburg   had all of her students  compose a  non-sense verse. Here’s mine:

If I were a fish
I wouldn’t live in a dish
But in an aquarium
I’d play spish, spash, spish

If I were a goat
I’d wear a furry coat
Nibble on green grass
and drink from a glass

I thought it was brilliant, as only a nine year old can,  and made a special copy  to  give to my  grandmother Cooney for Christmas that year.  She  raved about it, telling me it was a wonderful poem, and encouraged me to write more. Now , that’s a grandma’s love for sure.

In recent years  my dad gave me the book,  How to Write Poetry .  He inscribed it,  To Kathy, my favorite poet (Now, that’s a dad’s love for sure),  I read in this book: Sometimes a few beautiful well-constructed  lines are more powerful than any thousand page novel could possibly be. So this book challenges you to always seek the few beautiful well-constructed lines.  My Love, Dad 

On the inside cover dad  made a few more  helpful  notations; Guidelines  he picked from the book:
Show joy, awe & love
*  Every word in a poem plays a role in creating rhythm
*Be creative, not careless
*Where do you begin ? Begin at the beginning with a thought or a phrase
*Poetry is personal and there isn’t a right or wrong way to write a poem.

I’m a lot older than nine now, but I still  write prose, poetry and essay, and because I’m no longer nine , or 39 or 59 I don’t think my writing is  as brilliant as I did when I was in the fourth grade,  but  that doesn’t stop me. I write on !

postscript: April is National Poetry Month.  Be kind to a poet !  To view my blog Solitude, Salvator and Ella Wheeler Wilcox  go to  http://writingnorthidaho.blogspot.com/2011/04/solitude-salvator-and-ella-wheeler.html